Okay, folks. I recently put together a little love spell for you. Tired of just imagining your perfect hero? Ready to attract him/her into your life? This is an easy one...enjoy! P.S. For those uncomfortable with the word spell, think of this as a positive affirmation - there is really no difference between the two except that the spell has more focused and prolonged intent - and brings faster results!
Spell for the Ideal Mate
Best day to perform: Friday
Best moon cycle: Waxing
You'll need a small pink candle (a birthday candle works in a pinch!), an oil of your choice (vanilla or rose work best, but pick a scent you like, making sure it's one that can be worn on the skin), small piece of rose quartz crystal, a list you've written which starts with the heading:
I love myself, and I'm perfect and whole just as I am. I deserve the perfect mate in my life, and I'm in a healthy loving
relationship with the ideal partner for me. (
Important: refer to this person as
already being in your life.) This person is: list all of the traits you want in your mate.
Place all items on a table. Visualize yourself and the table surrounded by a bubble of sparkling white light, filled with energy.
Read your list, starting with
I love myself.
Say "As I anoint this candle, I set my intent, as the candle burns, my request is sent, as the candle flickers out, my spell is brought about."
Rub the oil into the candle while imagining all the qualities you desire in a mate. Don't think of a particular person. Trying to force someone to love you isn't ethical and will have very unsatisfactory results!
Light the candle.
Dab a little oil onto the crystal and say "Oil to stone, let my lover be known." Let the candle burn down.
For the next few weeks, or until your perfect mate arrives, wear some of the oil or carry the crystal with you. Every time you apply the oil or touch the crystal, know your spell worked. Know you are beautiful and perfect just as you are, and you are deserving and worthy of your ideal mate. So mote it be!
